RE: Hi All 06-28-2022, 11:16 AM
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My goodness, I'm sorry bro, I'm dealing with pretty much the same stuff, and I seriously would not want to wish this on anyone, that's no joke. I have been through some of the worst hell on earth and I would rather do that 10 times more, than deal with the divorce and what it does to people, especially when it's this bad, I can't make the shit up either, it's that nasty and doesn't have a reason, it will alter your world, the key is to do the best you can, and be a man.
I'm thankful to God, and to people like Mothered, Moose, Oni, Hacxx, Kurd, the list is long and includes everyone. I was lucky to have come here, if not I can't say I'm where I need to be and there's a chance im not here, stress is a killer.
I got nothing but positive support and it's one of the most incredible things I have experienced, I am honored to my core for the Epic life change I had from being here. Never thought I would be a better person, I am. We control our own Happiness!
I will PM you, but let me get this out to you, you or anyone going through this need to stop and take a moment or 2 to calm yourself and get your head right. You have to be level headed, grounded right, and "your mind clear, sharp, to make the best decisions possible, this is not going to be easy, get a lawyer, and research the best you can on who to get, and get that lawyer, it might cost you, but it will help you. You have to remain strong and positive, your kids are watching your every move, and they need you and will need your ex involved.
And this is going to suck, there are no winners in divorce. You must continue to stay on the correct path and keep your mind clear, tough decisions will have to be made. But you can do this And do it correctly.
There's all kinds of help here, ask if you have questions, ask, research all kinds of things. This place is just special, there are incredible people here, it's so perfect, and the minds and skills aren't just for computers and electronics, there's intelligence and advice beyond a normal understanding, it hits home, and guided me to a place in life I didn't think I would ever get to. My battle still rages, over 3 years, I never look back now and I hold on to none of it, our situations are very similar. I'm going to
PM you.
I wish this wasn't happening to you, focus on getting everything together within you, and we cant look back, things happened you can't change, going backwards you will sink ,, we move forward one day at a time.
I will help you as much as I can, I wish I could fix it for you, we can fix the new you and mold you well, make you a better person.
Don't do anything stupid or get in trouble. The men can get hammered for that. My victories came in time, but they were huge and changed the course of the divorce itself, the truth comes .
Stay here, check things out and you aren't alone.
G
(This post was last modified: 06-28-2022, 11:31 AM by LawDogUSA.
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